When a girl is complimented on beautiful eyes, sexy breasts or buttocks — this is considered more than normal. But when a boyfriend praises the feet, this puts some beauties into a stupor. Foot fetishism, although considered by most people to be something repulsive, in fact has many adherents. What is a foot fetish and how to relate to this hobby, and what to do if a partner decides to talk about his addictions?
Fetishism and fetishes
There is a religious and sexual meaning of this word (still commercial, but this is already Marxism). The general meaning is the worship of a person to a physical object, i.e. fetish. At the same time, the object of adoration cannot have a soul, it is not a person. In religious terms, they can be idols, totems, and the like. When it comes to sexual worship, fetishes are hair (sometimes on a specific part of the body), nails, limbs, and even things worn by a member of the opposite sex.
Foot fetishism is the sexual attraction to a person's feet. It is observed mainly in males. In other words, a man is excited by the appearance of this part of the body, its smell, tactile contact, skin temperature. The person also likes its taste. Don't forget the wardrobe items — stockings, tights and shoes. In general, everything related to the lower part of a woman's legs. In principle, this preference has varying degrees, so to speak:
- A young man is excited by women's legs, he likes to touch them. This form cannot be considered a full-fledged attraction. After all, the guy is attracted to other parts of the girl's body.
- The man pays most of his attention to the feet. Standard caresses are replaced by more intense massage, kisses.
- Full sex without the participation of the partner's feet is impossible. Such people get the most out of a foot job. The man is actually obsessed with the feet. Often there are elements of masochism (lick the heel of the mistress, etc.).
A footjob can be regarded as masturbation of a male member with the help of the feet of a sexual partner. Separate passive and active types of this joy.
Where does this craving come from
According to psychoanalysts, any non-standard attraction takes its roots from puberty. Let's say a 14-year-old teenager was the victim of a sexual impression while looking at someone's legs (even if it was unconscious, but the subconscious coupling may already appear). If this scene occurred at an emotionally unstable moment, and the teenager felt shame or humiliation, a reflex may develop that progresses with age. Especially if a grown-up guy has no luck with the opposite sex.
Foot fetishism is also strongly associated with a man's desire to be subdued by a powerful woman. For example, a serious boss really wants to be an obedient boy whom the mistress will force to clean (and not always in a figurative sense) her legs. Or an infantile man is subconsciously looking for a patroness who will dominate him, thereby reducing the fear of being abandoned and not courageous enough.
It all depends on the personality of the fetishist. For some, this hobby is considered a game that they easily control. For other — this is the strongest craving that can make you steal women's shoes in order to enjoy their smell.
How about this
For many girls, this preference for their men will only benefit. What's wrong with her boyfriend enjoying a relaxing foot massage after a hard day at work? Or with intimate caresses, covers the legs of a woman with kisses. If you can have classic sex with such a partner, there are no deviations, and you should not be afraid or reject such a craving if you do not want to offend your young man.
Another thing is if a man begs for your worn shoes or tights. Or even worse — trying to buy someone else's dirty shoes. With such and such, sex will not work out too much, because he wants to do it with the feet of a woman, and not with her. In such a situation, an appeal to a sexologist, or even a psychotherapist, can help. It all depends on the degree of worship.
Many people hide such preferences, considering them to be deviations from the norm. As long as a person is capable of close emotional relationships with others and does not make his hobby the meaning of life, you should not sound the alarm.
There is another type of foot fetish, it is called a crash fetish. You can read more about it in the article on link.
The spread of attraction
The cult of the female leg is quite widespread in the Celestial Empire, where men especially valued small female feet. To do this, beauties from childhood had to wrap their limbs with tight bandages, which caused deformities. In India, the legs of a girl have been decorated with henna and jewelry since ancient times.
Fans of this hobby can also be found among the stars of cinema and music: Quentin Tarantino, Britney Spears, Ricky Martin, Elvis Presley.
What is foot fetish? SIGNS OF A FOOTFETISHIST
